How do I do it all? Well to start, I am a mom of four kids. I work a full-time job as an Engineer, and I teach part-time at a University. Lastly, I am an author.
I learned a long time ago to manage my time. I’ll provide tips below, however, you must make time management work for you. I make it fun, by managing to do something I enjoy, which is writing every day. If I am not writing, I am usually imagining aspects of a story, because I am a proverbial daydreamer. Most of my friends or family would never think that I am working on stories while I am cooking dinner, taking a shower, driving or eating my lunch.
Steps to do more in a day than you ever thought possible;
KNOW YOURSELF
Take time to evaluate what stimulates you to accomplish your goals.
I knew that in order for me to get anything done, I needed to have many things going on at one time. I know it sounds weird, but I write best when my kids surround me. I also need lots, and lots of breaks. Therefore, most times I write in 10 to 30 minute sprints.
CREATE A CALENDAR THAT YOU CARRY EVERYWHERE
Carry a calendar, pda, ipod or cellphone. I use a pocket calendar of these items to keep me on track. I know it’s old fashion considering I am an engineer, but I like to put pen to paper to schedule my day.
You must have the tools of the trade. I use my cellphone and my pocket calendar to store all of my task, appointments, and goals for the week. That way if I am riding in the car, I know what I can do to pass the time, yet be efficient.
SYNC YOUR LIFE
Update your pocket calendar or ipod, and set reminders for task or goals that you send yourself with your phone, email calendar, or notes in your pocket calendar. If I have something really important to do, I set my answering machine to call me and remind me of the event. I drive my family crazy with this.
MAKE YOUR DREAM LIST
I prefer to say dream list. I believe that most people are more apt to complete goals that are in line with their dreams. Therefore, don’t create a DREAM LIST of stuff you have to do like, homework, pick up kids, cook dinner. Create a dream list (or bucket list) of things you want to accomplish before you leave earth. Then list the things you can do or have to do in order to check off your DREAM LIST.
My DREAM LIST included to write a book, snowboard, ride in a hot air balloon, scuba drive, hang glide, and travel. Of those items on my list I have completed over half by my personal deadline dates, which was one item per year.
WASTE NOT WANT NOT
Use those boring, do nothing moments effectively. I spend a lot of time at my kid’s sports practice just waiting for them to get finished. Therefore, I usually carry my manuscripts with me, and while I am sitting there for two hours waiting for them, I edit my books. If I don’t have books to edit, I give out bookmarks or other promotional gifts. I also, take a notebook for writing notes, or snippets for any Work In Progress I have. I use the time to check student’s assignments from my teaching job at the university. Also, when I am riding in the car on long trips, I bring my laptop and write while my husband drives.
SET A DEADLINE – and CHECK YOURSELF
Set realistic deadlines for your DREAM LIST. Then squeeze in time to reach those dreams in your everyday life.
I have accomplished and experienced so many things in my life. Some things I have attempted, and yet failed. Others, I have attempted and changed course, and some I have conquered and am satisfied. Imagine your time here on Earth is a gift, an adventure of which you want to taste and do all the things your can before you leave. You will be surprised and amazed at all you have experienced if you know yourself, love yourself, dream big dreams, map a path to reach them, and enjoy every minute along the way.
Guest post by LM Preston
Author of EXPLORER X – Alpha
www.lmpreston.com
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Time management is key. I am a WAHM and I know it all too well! Thanks for stopping by my blog. Would love to have you join us for Theta Mom Thursday!
I can’t tell you how timely your posting is. Thank you.
A dream list is a great idea! Dropped by from SITS.
With as much as you have going on, I’d say I could stand to learn from you! We just have my boyfriend’s daughter every other weekend and still I find I struggle between a full-time job, cooking and keeping the house up, and writing and submitting to try to get published. It can be exhausting at times!
When I saw the title of this post I almost wept with joy! I’m also a working mom and my life’s a living hell when it comes to organization. Thanks for the much needed tips and advice.
I use my google calendar for my go everywhere do everything calendar, it has work stuff scheduled, my blog publishing schedule, my transcription clients, my weight loss goals, and my kids dentists appointments!
I love the site. You have a lot of good posts here. I have a site as well that provides inspiration and guidance to people around the world. I was wondering if we could do a link exchange, so we can tell our visitors about both of our sites. Let me know.
Jason
TheWISDOMWALL.com
wow.. thank you for this tips.. we have a little similarities on how I manage my time too.. :doh:
take care sis
xoxo, MIMING
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grrrreat post! first of all I love focusing on what matters most – making my life, not just doing whatever comes up next – so organizing is super important, and secondly I love the dream list idea – you go girl!!
and fergot to say I’m here from SITS – happy Saturday SITS Sharefest!!
Setting the deadline is the most important. Goals will just be goals unless we set a culminating point. I admire your discipline in how you manage yourself and time. :-)
Thanks everyone. I was so happy to be invited to this site. Many of my friends have asked me how I do it, and now I can point them to this post. I am glad I could help. These tips came from years of tweaking and massaging. I am always looking for more tips so please do share.
Great suggestions! I have a major problem with time management. For some reason the internet always seems to get in the way!